A Gentlemanly Flogger

My flogging from a couple weeks ago went well. The Flogger likes a different kind of play, though, so it's doubtful we will play again. There are benefits to playing with people who have been around a while, like the ease and directness of communication. He also knew exactly what he was doing, down to a straw for my water bottle so I could drink without letting go of the St. Andrew's Cross. When I write him back I'll tell him he is quite a gentleman.

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Dear Flogger,

Thanks for my first flogging. I am interested in playing again if you feel the same way.

A couple hours later my back looked like nothing had happened, so marks were not a problem. I liked the slow build up, but once warmed up I can take more, but I'd like more intense thuddy type stuff.  Towards the very end I almost signaled to stop, but you backed off whatever it was you were doing. Was that the single tail/flogger hybrid? At this point intense stingy sensations are too painful, and I am in no way ready for a visit from a single tail whip.

There were two things that I did not like, but they are easily solvable. I enjoyed and appreciated the aftercare, but the thick blanket combined with the heat of the club was miserable.  I could bring a lighter blanket. Also if you would like to play again, I would like the hits scattered around the back of my body (including ass) rather that just the shoulders.

Let me know what you think,
UTP

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Hi UTP

 

Sorry for the delay in replying.

 

I intentionally didn't want to go too hard because it is much easier on your body to ask for more next time, than to ask for less. That may have been the cat o'nines that was stingy. I wanted to give it a try and see how you responded. I saw your hand move slightly, so I stopped.

 

We talked about being able to hit your ass, but it was last minute and I didn't want to change what we had negotiated at the spur of the moment. Combine that with avoiding the kidney area, it didn't leave a lot of alternatives.

 

I'm honored you want to play again. My play tends to be a bit more sexual, e.g., using floggers on breats, playing with nipples, and flogging inside the thighs. Obviously, that is not something you are interested in doing. We should talk in person one evening and see if there is common ground.

 

Flogger