Yesterday around 9pm, headache and vomiting got in the way of a perfectly good night of kink, which was to include spanking and fire cupping. I have to hand it to the staff at the Crucible for taking good care of me until I was well enough to drive home.
The day was not an entire waste kink–wise, however. In the afternoon I attended a workshop on genitorture for those with vulvas and vaginas. I explain it that way because the instructor wanted to make the point that just because a person has these genitalia does not mean that the person identifies as female. The preferred pronouns for the four (!) demo bottoms were he, she, she and it.
For the first demo, the bottom got on the floor and the inst. kicked him between the legs. Hard. Apparently bits can take alot of impact. Then the inst. covered his vulva with plastic wrap and hit it with a small leather strap and then a paint stirrer. Since he was a boot black, he also requested to be hit with one of his brushes, and reported that the prickly, irritating sensation of the bristles was not deadened by the plastic wrap barrier.
The next demo discussed how one could introduce humiliation into a scene by doing an "inspection” of the genitials, looking them over, examining them, and making quantitative (I can fit 3 fingers in.) or qualitative (I can fit 3 fingers in because you've got a loose slutty vagina!) statements. Then the inst. moved on to insertion, describing how it can be made uncomfortable, including sliding a finger in along with the dildo to put pressure on different parts of the vaginal wall.
For the third demo bottom, the class moved from basic genitorture to genitorture university.
A snake bite remover can works as a mini version of vacuum cupping. It is the same principle, but the cup is small enough to cover the area of a bite, and suction is achieved by pulling a syringe handle. I don't know the right terminology here. It is alot of suction in a small area, and when applied to the clitoris, the result is intense.
The instructor also demonstrated that fire play is a possibility for the bits if one uses a q-tip dipped in 70% isopropal alcohol (90% burns too hot apparently). When lit, it is a tiny flame, almost invisible. I tried this on my arm and it was hot and uncomfortable, and it singed the hair. I can only imagine it on more sensitive areas.
(I'll add here that the instructor is OSHA certified to handle blood and
spent a good deal of time talking about safe handling of equipment and
sterilization.)
The last act of the third demo was needle play: one just under the skin of each of the outer labia, 3/4 in long needles straight into the perineum, mons pubis and clitoral hood, and a 5 inch needle through both outer labia, making a vulva kabob. Ouch, ouch, ouch, and ouch. The demo bottom moaned and groaned as the needles went in, especially the kabob because it went through skin four times. Once in she could not feel them, and she was content to have them in while we observed the fourth demo. (When the needles came out later there was pain and blood.)
The forth demo moved us from genitorture university to genitorture post-graduate fellowship. This is some gnarly shit. If you had trouble with the needles, scroll on down to another blog entry.
Fair Warning.
The first part wasn't so bad. We learned how to use a speculum. Then the demo bottom wanted to have the feeling of scrotum, so the instructor injected each of the outer labia with a saline flush. It was a pretty good size syringe filled with saline and it took about 15 seconds to inject each labia. Oval-shaped swellings became visible, and the instructor told us that the body would reabsorb the saline in about 24 hours. The instructor has also done this procedure on men to temporarily enlarge the scrotum and penis, and also on men and women who want to temporarily enlarge breasts. In the case of breast, she has used IV bags full of saline.
Finally we learned how to do a temporary chastity using super glue. The instructor put some super glue on a q-tip and spread a tiny amount along the sides of the outer labia then pushed them together. After about 10 seconds they were glued. In this case, the demo wanted access to its clit, so only a 1/2 inch portion of the labia was glued. If one wants to glue more, there must be an opening left for urine.
The glue breaks down over the course of 3 days through exposure to urine. If there is an emergency situation and it must be undone before then, nail polish remover on a q-tip applied only to the glued area will release it.